My Demon and the art of borrowed souls: how K-dramas twist mythology into romance

Scene from My Demon | Image via: Netflix
Scene from My Demon | Image via: Netflix

There’s something quietly seductive in the way My Demon transforms ancient mythology into a stage for modern longing. Rather than using legends as mere backdrops, the series lets spirits slip into boardrooms, love contracts, and late-night ramen bowls, weaving old curses into daily routines.

This is a story of a demon losing his powers to a fierce CEO, but more deeply it’s the fragile dance of trust and betrayal that echoes through every glance and promise. Here, the soul isn’t a fixed vessel but a living currency, constantly bartered, borrowed, and sometimes stolen. Nothing captures that tension more beautifully than the romance at the heart of My Demon.

Tale of the Nine-Tailed | Image via: Netflix
Tale of the Nine-Tailed | Image via: Netflix

From fox spirits to fallen gods: Korea’s restless mythological shadows

Korean folklore teems with creatures that blur the line between human and otherworldly. Gumiho, mountain gods, and vengeful ghosts all represent desires and regrets too large to hold inside a single life. My Demon taps into this archive, reimagining a demon not as a mindless villain but as a broken reflection of human fears and desires.

Gu-won’s more than a demon; he’s a wandering promise, a contract given shape. His powers depend on emotional transactions, turning spiritual mythology into a commentary on love’s manipulative potential.

Instead of punishing humans from afar, Gu-won’s forced into human proximity, tasting warmth and loneliness in equal measure. It reworks old tales, betraying them, seducing them, making them wear a tailored suit, and confessing secrets over dinner.


The woman who borrows the night

Do Do-hee stands far from a typical damsel trembling at the sight of a supernatural being. She’s sharp, ruthless, and business-hardened, a woman who learned to weaponize her vulnerability long before any demon appeared. When she borrows Gu-won’s powers, she gains more than magical protection. Their dynamic becomes a study in power reversals.

The demon, usually the predator, turns into prey to human emotion. Meanwhile, Do-hee’s human fragility becomes the source of unexpected strength. In many ways, she borrows not only his powers but also his isolation, his ache for belonging, and his helplessness in the face of love. Borrowing turns into a mutual haunting, an echo chamber where each character hears the other’s deepest regrets and unspoken dreams.

Song Kang plays Gu-won in Netflix My Demon : Image via: Getty
Song Kang plays Gu-won in Netflix My Demon : Image via: Getty

Romance as ritual, love as exorcism

In My Demon, romance feels like a dangerous ritual. Every touch feels like a summoning, every kiss a small exorcism of loneliness and guilt. Instead of offering love as salvation, the series presents it as a negotiation, a constant bargaining of selfhood, pride, and safety.

The motif of borrowed souls captures this tension perfectly. Souls aren’t simply stolen or sold; they’re rented, tested, returned in pieces. It challenges the viewer to question whether love means merging into someone else or surviving despite them.

As Do-hee and Gu-won move closer, their connection feels both fated and deeply transactional, a contract signed in the quiet spaces between heartbeats.


Echoes in the K-drama universe

My Demon doesn’t stand alone in its mythological experimentation. Dramas like Goblin, Hotel Del Luna, and Doom at Your Service prepared audiences to see spirits and gods as romantic partners rather than curses. But while these dramas often romanticize the melancholy of eternal beings, My Demon adds a sharper edge.

Here, mythology focuses on agency, on humans daring to rewrite old curses to serve their emotional agendas. Instead of the passive human waiting to be chosen, Do-hee actively disrupts Gu-won’s mythos, forcing him to confront his vulnerability. It signals a broader evolution in K-drama storytelling, from receiving fate to actively twisting it into new shapes.


Aesthetics of longing and danger

Visually, My Demon leans into the seduction of shadows and glossy cityscapes. The cinematography highlights mirrored surfaces and nocturnal lighting, turning every hallway and rooftop into a liminal space where emotions slip free from social constraints.

Costuming also plays a crucial role. Gu-won’s impeccable suits suggest control and coldness, while Do-hee’s bold silhouettes embody her fierce independence. Yet both characters unravel visually as the story progresses, their tailored armor replaced by more vulnerable, fluid forms.

This aesthetic shift mirrors their emotional journey, suggesting that true intimacy requires shedding one’s curated image, even if only momentarily.


The cultural aftershocks of a demon’s love

The success of My Demon shows that audiences crave romances that challenge and provoke as much as they comfort. The series stages an argument on whether love is ever purely altruistic. Can a demon care without an ulterior motive? Can a human love a being whose nature is to consume and manipulate?

These questions resonate beyond the screen, stirring debates among fans on consent, emotional labor, and the ethics of trying to "fix" someone through love. The idea of borrowed souls becomes a metaphor for all the ways relationships blur ownership and sacrifice. It reminds us that to love is to surrender pieces of oneself that might never fully return.

Scene from My Demon | Image via: Netflix
Scene from My Demon | Image via: Netflix

My Demon and the art of being human

Ultimately, My Demon focuses less on spirits and more on the deeply human terror of intimacy. The series turns borrowed souls into a vocabulary for longing, a grammar of glances and silences where each character risks dissolution in the other’s gaze.

In its darkest moments, the drama whispers that love might be the cruelest contract of all, asking us to sign away autonomy for fleeting warmth. Yet in that cruelty lies a fragile, undeniable beauty: the belief that even borrowed souls can learn to beat in unison, even if only for a single night.

Edited by Beatrix Kondo